I'm I'm so much pain! And feeling depressed. Anyone feel the same way?

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I'm 10w 6d. I have a wonderful fiance, a beautiful home, and just got a puppy. The last 2 weeks I've been feeling so depressed and unhappy. I should be appreciating and enjoying life. But all I want to do is lay down and not leave my house. I deal with a lot of stress in my job, and don't have many girl friends anymore. Maybe it's that, with the combination of morning sickness. Do anyone feel the same way? On another note I have the constant feeling like I have to pee but my bladder is empty. It also hurts to pee towards the last couple of drops. I went to my doctor 3 days ago to have my urine tested. She said their is nothing wrong with me. And looked at me like I'm crazy. I don't feel comfortable around my doctor. I'm in constant pain throughout the night. And don't know what to do. Someone please help...

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I agree that you definitely need a new doctor. I swear, doctors should have to pass a bed-side manner test with flying colors before they are ever allowed to see patients.

Don't feel like you're alone. Aside from being severely sick for the past 5 weeks, I have also had feelings of depression ever since I found out I was pregnant. I have a hard time understanding why some women love to be pregnant...when I'm sure they think the same of me for having opposite feelings. Our bodies are going through some pretty serious changes, so depression and feelings of hopelessness are not so far fetched.

Lucky for me, I have a very close friend who was also very depressed when pregnant so she is my support system. If you need one...I can be yours! 😀

Hang in there. Take one day at a time. And, get that new doctor!

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Im sorry you're feeling bad all around! I didn't feel depressed during my first trimester, but it's hard! Feeling sick, feeling like your hubby doesn't understand. Especially if you don't have support from friends, it can be draining. Don't worry, things get better in the second trimester when you have more energy and can feel a little more human. I'd suggest switching doctors- you really need to be able to tell your doctor how you feel without being judged. It sounds like you have a UTI- and should consider getting your urine re-checked. Hang in there!

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I felt this way, sick and super depressd until I reached week 12-13 and now I feel way better.. "This too shall pass." 
(Trust me I thought it wouldn't end but it did :)

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First of all.... You need to get yourself a new doctor. You also should make it clear to the office that the doctor is making you feel uncomfortable when you tell them your concerns.. That is not right, it's there job to hear you and do whatever they can to help you.

Second, I am RIGHT there with you! Every day is a new emotion for me and usually it's not happy and chipper.  Usually I am overly exhausted and depressed or super irritable.

I keep stressing to my family that I'm sorry and don't mean to act this way... They 100% understand but you still feel bad.

Just hang in there, your first trimester is almost over! It will get better afterwards!

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I'm completely depressed! And I have two sisters that are completely rude and negative about EVERYTHING! It makes me literally sick to be around them!!! Isn't that sad? And also I wanna sleep all the time too. If I move too much I get crampy, which in asking my dr about on Wednesday. And  I pee all the time too!!!!! It's crazy! I felt like I was reading my own thoughts (minus the uti symptoms)! I'm here for you if you need to talk!

I'm I'm so much pain! And feeling depressed. Anyone feel the same way?

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