Boyfriend problems (help)
So Iv been with my bf now a lil over a year together. We get along pretty great, hardly argue. We have an apartment with his brother, his girl & there son.
But latley Iv been getting upset easily & the reason is Cuz my bf starting smoking weed. He never did before Cuz he didn't like it & Cuz his old job tested.
I know it's just weed no big deal, I used to smoke as well.
But the reason I'm getting mad or upset is Cuz I want a family someday & I feel like it could ruin our chances in the next year or so when we decide were ready to try.
& also I had such bad experiences with 2 exs that when I first met my bf now that's the main reason I liked him Cuz he didn't smoke weed or any kind of drugs.
This is really making me question our relationship & if I can have a future with this man. I love him sooooo much & want to be with him for the rest of my life, I can't picture life without him.
But this is really bothering me. How do u think I should handle this. I have told him why I don't want him to start this habit. But I haven't really told him all my feelings. I don't want to seem like I'm trying to control him. But it's just something I don't want my life partner to do.
Oh & the first 4ish months of our relationship I was addicted to pain killers. He made me quit or said he would end it Cuz it's not something he wanted from a gf. So I quit & now he starts somthing I don't want. How does that make sense. Please someone give me good advice. I don't want us to break up Cuz of it but I feel it's going to ruin us.
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