Why do men lie?

Question

Me and my SO have talked about porn and looking at it together he woke me up with sex this morning but saw porn on his phone. I'm not bringing it up as I'm tired of fighting I just don't understand why he lies or hides it. Just makes me feel uneasy, especially since we are TTC.

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Maybe he hides it because he's embarrassed or ashamed to admit it to you. Hiding small things can often turn into hiding big things and then into big problems.

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My husband lied to me and I caught him watching porn and sending nude photos. I went off on him and he looked ashamed and said he was sorry. I told him to grow up and if he wanted to do that he could leave me cause I'm not having it. So we have been communicating better. Men are stupid sometimes just like women are so just got to see if you can let it go

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Why are you going through his phone?  You need to talk with him maybe he feels he isn't hiding it. I would be pissed if my husband went through my phone without permission.

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Maybe hes scared to mention it some guys feel like women think its cheating maybe hes scared to know your reaction when telling you he watches it just bc he doesnt want unnessasary drama or anything i know i knew my man did but he did not come out and say it i sat him down and told him how i feel abt porn (which it doesnt bother me i actually like it too) and now he doesnt mind telling me we even watch it together but he doesnt nessarily say hey i watched porn today but if i see it or ask he will tell me! Lol

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Many people feel ashamed that they watch porn. They feel shame for many reasons, and it sounds like that's why he has a hard time telling you the truth. It's about him, not you.

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Maybe because he feel's you will fight or argue with him more if you know about it, so he hides it or just doesn't mention it.

Why do men lie?

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