so my ex and i were going to hang out and we're in the works of making things work but taking it slow. so yesterday we were supposed to hangout and he really wanted me to spend the night. of course i wasn't goi.g to get intimate with him that night and for a while. but i didnt mind hugging him or kiss him. then i changed my mind saying i might not kiss him because i might be getting sick and he gets super defensive asking why else and if i thought he was gross like other girls do or think he was having sex witj girls and just went on. then he cancels plans because a family member got in tiwn so i cancelled too and went to bed and he ignores me the whole day but gets on facebook frequently but posts nothing. what the hell do i do? im sick of being ignored and having false hope and him showing so many mixed signals. like one minute hes saying he misses me too but not our relationship and wants to kiss me and sleep next to me and all this other shit but i get ignored so much.