Annoying In-laws ugh!!

When I was pregnant with both my boy's my husbands whole family would always say oh they're going to be big babies because they're daddy was a big baby. Or when they were both born with brown hair his mom was so disappointed because they didn't have blonde hair. No one ever asked what runs on my side of the family or hey I have brown hair maybe they'll have brown hair. Nope everything was all about their daddy. So annoying!! I cannot stand when they just over look me. It absolutely drives me insane! Mind you they both have blonde hair and blue eyes now just like their daddy which is annoying cuz his family was right lol but still frustrating that they just think it's all about him even though I'm carrying these kids. Anyone else's in-laws do this crap?