Big mistake !!!

So I've been dating this guy for about 4 months now he always wanted to do things and wouldn't let me do them like my house work or chores whatever and now it's a habit I don't wanna really do anything and he does it all we jus got in a big fight over school and about going and me not finishing my HW just stupid shit and he hid my phone from me and wouldn't give it to me and said he didn't have it but I gave it to him and I told him to just shut up and I'm tired of him acting like a parent to me any advice