My boyfriend and I, ex boyfriend because he broke up with me due to our "complicated" relationship, but we stayed friends with benefits. I had issues with that, and because of how i constantly felt, we took a "break", which meant not speaking at all. Prior to that, we did agree we wouldn't talk to other people. Talk as in flirt, sext, etc with other people. Why? We love each other and it's a sign of disrespect I suppose since there was still intentions of us being together. A guy from my past, literally middle school and freshmen year, still talks to me. When due time has passed and you're over what has happened, i feel like it's alright to speak. I was over it, but the old guy wasn't. I always told him and let him know about my boyfriend, ex, whatever, I let it be known always, with him and any other guy who flirted, that I was involved with someone. I was in a position where me cutting off every guy who dare said I was pretty, didn't matter because who do I belong to? I'm being treated like a liar and im being punished for not acting like a girlfriend when he took that title away from me. Did I do something wrong?