Boy or Girl??

Tray • 18 Year old getting prepared for his first born
Me & My girlfriend are expected our first born January 14, 2016 she's 9 Weeks & 6 Days. We want a girl so bad !! Like so bad that's all we ever talked about we've been buying girl clothes & calling it a her came up with a girl name and all. Do you think we're jinxing it by doing what we're doing??