CD 30 no AF no Testing

So call me crazy but I'm 14 dpiui/ 16 dpiui and I have not POAS. I'm so scared to see that BFN. I figure in PUPO (pregnant until proven otherwise). Its helping me stay stress free. I'm usually 28 days, but was told because of the Clmoid it would be later. Baby dust to you all! I'm actually having mild cramps now. 😕