Me and my bf have been together for 5 years we have been engaged for almost 2 years now.. well i was at his house this weekend nd i was in the living room talking to his mom and one of her friends. We talked for about 2 hours. I left my phone in the bedroom where my bf was. When i came back in he sed he had gone thru my pictures on my phone.. i became angry immediately.. 1) he had gone thru my phone one previous time that ened with us in a nasty argument so i told him to never go thru my phone again

2) i do have things on my phone that i would like to keep private its nothing that would harm our relationship in anyway i just want it to myself. Mainly i have alot of pictures for the wedding nd of dresses so i didnt want him to see some of that

3) i lived with people that always went thru my stuff and constantly took things from me or went thru my phone so im a liitle sensitive to anyone going thru my stuff without asking me first

4) i dont go thru his phone.. i did it once but he was right there nd offered for me to see. He lets me see wut his texts r to his ex (they have a daughter) but i have never just gone thru his phone cuz i trust him..

I guess i feel like i was betrayed in some way. We did talk about it but i still feel mad that he did what he did. I had some videos of porn on my phone and that seemed to be what he went thru and he sed was its weird. We are perfectly fine with one another watching porn. What i have on my phone is for me when im alone not something i would watch with him. It just makes me angry soory for the long rant.