I know feeding baby is a way you cannbon with baby... on my first, I expressed milk and bottle fed that milk most of the time. I didnt actually put baby on the boob for about 2 months and then it was only in the house.. This time we decided it would be easier to just feed off the breast, less time meaning more time with my daughter. So we havn't got the bottles/pump/ or steraliser out. Baby is 5 days old and it has bèen great but I feel bad that my husband doesnt get to fèed him and is missing an important bonding experience.