Natural labor?

Dena
Anyone planning on going naturally? Fears ? And if anyone is a second or third or fourth time mom, and has given birth naturally, how hard was it to refuse the pain medication? And did the doctors respect your wishes? I also am wondering how painful it is, and how much either childbirth classes, aromatherapy, music, doulas (or husbands), hypnoburthing, Lamaze, Bradley method worked for you? And if it made any difference ?