Advice on how to make sex less painful?

Question

I won't get too personal in this. 
First of all, I'm a lesbian and I am willing to use the natural conception method with a donor. 
My problem is I have a low-lying cervix and male penetration can be too painful for me to bear. I want us to be able to both be comfortable. 
If anyone has a less painful method/position to suggest, please help. 
What do straight women usually do when they have a low cervix? 
Please help with any advice you can. I'm actually rather scared that my TTC experiences are going to be extremely painful. :c

Answer

Try a position that day lengthens the vaginal passage and relax. Go slowly, if you can only bare a short time maybe worth the donor starting themselves off and merely finishing inside you.

Answer

I'm not sure if I do but I might have a low cervix, if that's what makes sex painful. :/ I had a really hard time with my husband when we first started. I'm not sure if there is really a way around it, I just had to be well prepped, lubed, and I just have to go slow and allow myself to stretch. I really like the preseed lube, and it's sperm friendly, so win win. :) It doesn't dry up, and is easy to apply. I don't use the applicators, just a little on me and a little on him, but I've heard it's more comfortable with the applicators... Hope this helps. :)

Advice on how to make sex less painful?

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