Dilated and effaced question!

Ashley
So I see a lot of woman posting about being dilated and effaced. With my first one I was induced after 4o weeks so I don't know how that feels. I'm 36+1 and I'm curious to know when you are dilated if you feel any different? If you are in discomfort? If your has to be "dropped" in order for you to be dilated. Any information on this is appreciated!