My fiancé and I got engaged in late March we decided to have the wedding in October, but that just didn't seem like enough time. We pushed it back to September 2016 and no sooner did I tell my bridesmaids and family I found out I was pregnant. I come from a religious background and I'm afraid of being ridiculed and ostracized for being pregnant before we got married. I'm thinking about going to get married at the courthouse before we announce that we're pregnant. Thoughts?