I said I thought she was attractive, and said that even when she wears more masculine clothes she manages to be a more attractive female than me. I said "I don't know how to girl." And a few other light hearted jokes. I never said I'd go gay, or have sex, or leave him for her or ANYTHING along those lines. I just said she was gorgeous.

He got so upset... He was like "sorry I'm not as attractive as her." I never said he wasn't? I find my husband very attractive, and I get a little jealous here and there because other women clearly do as well. He's attractive and he is obviously aware of it.

So why is it such a big deal that I have a girl crush on a woman who is very beautiful and almost every other women has a crush on her as well... I don't understand why he's so worried about it.

He's been cheated on a lot in the past, but I have never cheated on anyone in my life, and sure as hell not my husband. So why am I getting treated as if I'm going to? It's seriously upsetting. He gets upset when my friend Selena hugs me, he thinks we're "doing it to make him jealous". It's a girl. And I am straight.

What could possibly be the problem here??