I have a family member who was beaten up by her boyfriend she called me in distress so of course I went what I didn't know is she called her ex boyfriend which is one of my good friends who's still very much in love with her and she knows it so ok we move her stuff in my house she has 14yr old son she basically dropped him off had sex with my friend got his feelings all wrapped up again I say she used him now she's back with the guy and just really dogged my friend mean while her kid was unpleasant because he didn't want to be heard and I was on edge because I don't trust him around my kids