So we have only been trying since I stopped the pill in November last year. Since I'm over 35 (37 in four mths) my doctor wants me to see a gynocologist and my partner to get a semen analysis. I am waiting for my partner to make a doctors appointment and then get the test. I'm waiting patiently. He says he will do it ( he works long hours) but thinks I'm over reacting and we should wait the 12 months before getting concerned. I'm sick of feeling frustrated and teary and want to punch him in the face. Talking to him about how I'm feeling gets me nowhere it seems. Blah! Men!