I am 19 years old and all I have every known is kids, work, coming home to clean, and school. Since I was 11 years old my summers consisted of work which is fine, but I haven't really experienced any type of teenager life style. I have 7 brothers some from my dads previous marry, and some from my moms. The only thing I know how to do well is raise babies, cook and clean, basically like I have babies of my own.  I am recently in college and struggling to keep a job while studying, only because my mom wanted me to continue working. I pay for everything I own, and provide groceries most of the time for my moms house. My boyfriend has wanted me to come live with him for quite some while now, but my mom gets really mad and tells me she wants me to do things the right way, such as getting married first. She is sort of being a hypocrite when it comes to my relationship, I have been with my SO For almost 3 years, and I just think it's time for me to be a stupid teenager and live my own life. My dad and stepmom believe I should do what I want and would make me happy, but I just really don't want to disappoint my mom.  What do you guys think?