Does she regret it or questions life decisions?

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So I'm friends with this girl on Facebook. I went to school with her and she was very kind. Well she just had her 3rd kid. Different dad's all of them. She always complains about the baby daddy's never being there. Then complains about not having free time because of kids.

As a person looking from the outside I can't help but wonder did you even consider maybe hopping on birth control or maybe dating the guy for more then one night. I don't care if people have one night stands but u would think maybe birth control would be a knowledgeable thing to have. What are the chances of finding 3 guys in a row that get you knocked up in a span of 3 years? Apparently very common.

I'm curious to know people's thoughts. This is a controversy topic. I am not narrow minded I simply wonder if maybe she could of just waited cause her life wasnet really simple before baby number 2. Wonder if 4th times a charm??

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She might be actually very happy but just loves to complain. It is an interesting predicament she has made for herself tho.

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I have 3 babies with different daddy's! None of the daddy's want to grow up and be daddy's, that's okay tho.. Maybe I'm different but the way I look at it is I chose to lay down, I happend to get pregnant, I chose to have/ keep the baby so therefore it is my #1 priority 😀 it does get difficult so I get your friend complaining from time to time.. Just tell her to remember she chose her life and she should be grateful for what she has bcuz there are some people that aren't as luck! ( sorry if it offended anyone, I just know that when someone trys for so long it is hard to see ungrateful mothers)

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I have a friend in a similar situation. First baby daddy was abusive, but their birth control failed. 2nd baby daddy rescued her from 1st baby daddy. Quite litterally came in in the middle of the night, packed her stuff and took her in. He turned out to be abusive as well. She thought he was the one. Now neither one of then want anything to do with their kids. And baby daddy number 3 is actually a decent guy, but is chronically ill with an undiagnosed illness. This baby she planned to use to save their relationship as he had cheated. That failed, but to give him credit he plays daddy to all three of her kids, all the while she's completely ungrateful and uses him quite a bit to do whatever she wants. It's an interesting dynamic. She still manages to complain 24/7 about her kids and their dads. I certainly don't get it.

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Birth control requires money. Which she just said she doesn't have. Thats a very valid reason as to why she doesn't have birth control.

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No I don't really think there's any excuse. She put herself there. I vowed to not be that girl. I had medicaid and got the implant so I was protected for 3 years regardless of anything else. Once I lost my medicaid I didn't have to worry about it. Even then, I STILL used protection. Sometimes it seems like women pretend to not have any idea how to be smart and protect themselves. If you really don't want to have more kids you'll use all your resources and make sure it doesn't happen.

Does she regret it or questions life decisions?

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