Should I smoke with him?

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My boyfriend has been smoking pot longer than I've known him and I'm with him while he's smoking a lot and his friends smoking too. I've never tried it. He's asked me to but I've told him i dont want to he is okay with it and has told me if I ever wanted to I can with him. I do want to try it but I'm unsure. He makes hints all the time about couples that smoke together stay together. I'm just afraid of embarrassing myself in front of him while doing it.  Help?

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I wouldn't compromise myself. The only reason I tried it was because I was in between jobs. I figured I may as well get my one time over with in my 20's if I was ever gonna do it because I planned to stay in law enforcement where we are subject to drug tests, which I'm perfectly fine with. Don't do it to stay together or whatever crap he told you, that's not true at all lol

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I remember how silly I felt the first time I tried it. Try it with him, just the two of you. You won't get addicted or anything. He will be in the same frame of mind as you at the time so it should help you feel less embarrassed. It's fun, so much better then drinking and you will sleep like a baby at the end of the night. You only live once, try the temptations of life if you don't like that something the first time then you don't have to give it another go.

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If YOU wanna smoke then do it; don't do it because of your bf. But if you do want to smoke then don't feel bad if you don't know "how" to smoke. He'll love you anyways and we all had to learn how to smoke.

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If you don't want to do it don't let anyone pressure you. I you want to try it go for it! Its pretty harmless

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Smoking pot isn't that bad. You laugh a lot, eat good munchie food, have a higher metabolism (pot speeds that shit up) and you honestly just relax. Your not going to make a fools of yourself but if you reAlly don't want to do it then stick to your guns

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My husband who I've known for almost 6 years is also a smoker. His friends smoke, some of their wives smoke. I tried it once with MY friends AND him. That was my first and my last. However, when they are smoking it IS pretty awkward as I'm just sitting there while they keep passing it around. I choose not to anik it as I am personally not happy that he does smoke it. Financially it's hard to think about it. But anyhow, back to the point. It's ok to try it with him. I laughed my head off that one time. And we both crack up about it, even up to today. No harm in trying. Especially if you are comfortable with him.

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Can we say, "peer pressure???" Geez... He's not good for you.

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You can't let him pressure you into it. He's just making up excuses to try and convince you.

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If you want to try it, try but only do it with him first. Like in a safe n quiet place. If something bad happens he'll take care of yu n yu won't be embarrassed

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It really depends on you. My husband and I used to smoke together and it was fun, but we both gave it up because it was becoming too much of a bad habit. Most people that start end up doing it often. 
If you do decide to do it, I would just do it with him only (if you're comfortable with him) so you can relax and just feel it out. Also, in my opinion, blunts and bongs will get you way more f*ed up so I would stick with a bowl or joint (which I'm sure he has if he's a smoker).
I'm sure people will hate on this topic and response, but you're gonna do what you want regardless.

Should I smoke with him?

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