Anyone TTC but not T HARD TC?

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We are 'trying' but not in the 'we-must-have-sex-right-now-if-we-want-to-make-a-baby way'. Anyone else trying to conceive but not trying HARD to conceive?

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January, and February we ttc HARD. March I MISSED my period (I had high hopes I was pregnant) went to the Dr for my yearly, NO BABY. No period AT ALL in march. Got a period April 9 (but started bleeding April 11) 
Dr told my 8 days after my period is best fertility window. 
Told my husband not going to try as hard anymore but if it happens it happens. Well 8 days later and I think we did it once or twice in those few days. 
Any who may comes and I wake up with this HUGE headache in my eyes. (Called into work for the FIRST time) required to get dr note for work. Went into the urgent care for a headache, naseau and tummy ache. Told dr not on birth control but sure I WASN'T pregnant. Dr pressured me into getting a urine sample for 'uti' check, but said we're gonna do a pregnancy test also. Dr came in and told me test was positive I was so shocked I was smiling and laughing the whole time. 
It happens when it's your time I believe.

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Same as us, I'm tracking my periods and take ovulation tests (purely because I have PCOS and I don't know if or when I'll ovulate) but we're just going with the flow xx

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We tried hard for two months then decided it will happen when it's suppose to. I found it more stressful to do opks bc then I was obsessed and once I got a positive i was telling him we had go bd. It felt like I was using him for his sperm.....which I was.....but it was becoming a chore and just business ha so now we just have fun whenever and wherever a child comes about from with that we will be very excited!

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Same. I'm not forcing us to have sex to conceive. I'm letting it happens when it happen, but not preventing either. I monitored my period and whatnot for years to prevent pregnancy without birth control and it worked. Now I am still monitoring and tracking when we have sex just so I can be more accurate of pregnancy weeks when I do conceive, because I generally have 31 day periods so if I go off of LMP it's off for me...and it bothers me hahaha

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That's how we were. We weren't preventing and if it happened it happened. It did for us after 7 months :)

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Me and husband are doing the same ♥ whatever happens happens ♥

Anyone TTC but not T HARD TC?

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