Am I overreacting?

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My bf works with this girl. He recently showed her a picture of how I look and all she said was "she looks so innocent, she doesn't look like the type of girl I see you dating." What kind of person says that!!?? I told my bf that I am not innocent then he said well she's right you always make the same face in pictures, give me a sexy face right now. I didn't do it since I don't feel sexy at all (I'm 37 weeks pregnant). All my bf said is "you see". That made me get so self conscious. Should I be worried about this girl or am I just being crazy pregnant lady. I'm afraid she's gonna put ideas in his head and he's gonna believe everything she says.

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Any girl can try her hardest to get in the middle of your relationship..  It's not her you have to worry about. It's your boyfriend. Can you trust him? Would he ever be disloyal? If you can trust him you have nothing to worry about no matter the threat!

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The fact that he isn't hiding having you as a girlfriend is one plus point. The second is that he's being open about telling you the conversation. Make a big deal out of it and he'll then think twice about telling you things out of fear of upsetting you. Mountain out of a molehill comes to mind.

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What's wrong with looking innocent I'd take it as a compliment screw her and her back handed compliment idk why your Bf would tell you this he had to have known it would upset you

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Wait why is your bf showing some girl your pic and why does some girl want to see your pic? That isn't just small talk it's something else

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I think your overreacting a little. People say I look innocent all the time because I still have a baby face. Then when they see my boyfriend who also the father of my child they don't think he's someone I would be with.

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Not to sure what to do in a situation like this but I hope he doesn't fall for her nonsense.. You don't need that kind of stress in your life right before you have a baby. I hope for the best for you and your hubby! ❤

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It could be nothing because he told you about it but she was out of line especially because she knows he has a pregnant gf. It doesn't sound like he is doing anything wrong but she is outside the boundaries. He is showing off his beautiful pregnant gf and some dumb girl went to far because she is jealous of what you have. Unless he gives you reason I wouldn't worry too much about a jealous Co worker

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For me looking innocent means you look freshie, than that bitch who told you that.

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My questions are; why did he tell you this, and what was his response to her? It just sounds weird to me and I'd say she's interested in him.

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