Help! Go or not!?!?

I've been talking to a guy I met online for a few weeks now. Last night at 9pm he texted me and said he was going to watch a movie and if I wanted to join. I said no because I need 24 hours notice. He asked me what I was doing tonight. I said nothing I'm free. So he asked if I wanted to get drinks tonight. I said yes, but before 9pm (9 pm would be 24 hours but that's too late for me). He never replied and hasn't today. It's now 5pm. Am I supposed to wait around for him to text me a location or time? If he does reply in the next few hours, do I just ignore him now? This would be the first time we meet. Help!!!!!
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Lmfao 24 hours notice? 😂

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𝕖𝕧𝕖 • Jul 11, 2015
I wouldn't reply either, honestly. What are you so busy doing?

Be

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I don't think I would have replied back either. That's a mood killer... but u can always text him and ask

IM

IM • Jul 12, 2015
He did text. He didn't have anything planned yet. I didn't go.

Am

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9pm to come over and "watch a movie" is big time code for booty call. Up to you on how you might pursue that. I don't get the 24hr part since you would prob want to meet him in public for the first time for drinks or a small bite, perhaps what your looking for is for him to show some advanced planning? Sounds like this guy is just looking to get into your pants and not looking for a relationship based on his actions. Guys who are interested make plans and call you. 

Je

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Why 24 hour notice maybe that scared him off I don't get it 

Be

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9pm is too late?! Do u have work in the morning?! 24hrs notice? Is this at all times with anyone?

Be

Belle • Jul 14, 2015
that's understandable... just be aware that this times may not work out for the other person

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IM • Jul 12, 2015
Just to clarify, what I mind is starting the night off that late. I'd rather start earlier (6,7,8) so that I can be home prepping for the next day of work

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IM • Jul 12, 2015
Yes, for first dates only. And yes I work in the mornings. I have a busy and intense career

Ch

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Ask him where you are gonna meet at. He is prob neevious as well but I would so guest a place that is where you both know or people know you their so siguest like hey want to meet at "insert place name here" and make sure you let people know where you will be going, who you are meeting with ect.