Too much pressure on the hubby?

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I've been trying to keep it as light & fun as possible, I.e. No pressure on my husband. But today is the last day of my ovulation cycle & my hubby was unable to complete. As disappointing as it is, I keep telling him it's fine & it's not a big deal but you know how proud men can be.

Looking for encouragement & also ideas for keeping it fun & spicey so that TTC doesn't seem like work?

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dont tell him when u are in your fertile period.  be the one who initiates sex.  he will know but there wont be as much pressure.

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Head. 👌

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Don't let him in on any of the details. I was tracking everything and keeping hubby in the loop. He was getting the worst performance anxiety and then each time he worried it would be like the last. Since I stopped telling him everything, he has finished every single time. I still track and do opks but its all in secret and he prefers it that way :)

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Maybe he was just tired. Hubby tells me that sometimes it hard to do it every 24 he's.

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I like to start off first.  I cuddle, touch his body all over light with my fingers or nail, start reading him down there, whip cream or ice or cool water. Hand job or blow job tease his twins or suck them too. Or if I'm on top n we're getting ready to penetrate I just like to tease him more with just putting in the tip n takin out again.  This is before... Well some ideas. Hope you find something that works. Good luck

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Role play?!

Too much pressure on the hubby?

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