So I'm an only child... On my dads side I'm "it" only niece only grandchild... This made me particularly close to my entire family especially my uncle. My aunt and uncle always lived up the road from us and I spent most of my weekends as a child with all of us playing games and fun family stuff. In October I found out my uncle had a brain tumor... After tests, surgery and chemo it wasn't enough. I just found out he's been given 4 weeks left to live and my SO and I have been trying to conceive. No one knows we've been trying except a very small few but I'm flying home this weekend for less then 48 hours (from NC to PA) to pretty much say goodbye to my uncle :( he doesn't know it's only 4 weeks so it's going to be hard to keep myself composed but AF is due this weekend... Literally the 18th or 19th... I really want to be able to to tell him first (after my SO of course)  so I know he knows before the worst happens. I need the whole bottle of baby dust!!