My name is Stephani and I'll be 21 in September. I've known my husband since freshman year of high school, 2009. we dated for about a month and I was the one who took his "v-card". we rode the same school bus so we were always together even after we broke up. I dated people after but he didn't until junior year of school. from 06-2012 until 09-2014 I dated and was engaged to a man I've known since I was five years old. well, it didn't work out. I've been with my husband since November last year. people say we move so quickly but with both of us hitting our 20's we both came into the relationship knowing we wanted forever and a family. I got the Merina November of last year, before I had been on the pill since 2009. it wasn't until March with hard decisions and trouble with my new birth control, we decided to get my iud out and let God take over. I got af after getting the iud out I want to say a month afterwards. we've been going natural ever since. we want a baby so bad that I think that's why we haven't had success yet. ttc is the easy part, waiting is killin us. I was supposed to have af 07/13 and had no signs of her showing up. usually each month I'll have pc a week before. but to shorten my already long post, I'm very new to all this and I'd like some help, guidance and support.