just wanted to cry at lunch today my co worker told me her daughter just found out she's pregnant - while her situation is not a great one - she's a teen without a job who just graduated high school with her whole life ahead of her and whatnot all I could think of was how lucky she is to be able to have a baby and then my second thought was I will totally adopt the baby from you - crazy I know but after trying and trying for so long it kinda sucks - and I didn't say either I just listened and was there for my friend to vent and all that and then I said "wow you're going to be a grandma!"  haha she wasn't to pleased but she knows I was trying to help lighten the situation...