Here we go! Again!

I found out Sunday night I am expecting baby #4. I have a 4 yr old son, 2(almost 3) yr old daughter, & an 8 month old son. This pregnancy wasn't planned, I was on the pill & an in shock - also the EDD will be close to my son's 5th birthday (2 weeks or less) Any moms with larger family's have words of advice? I'm petrified to announce the pregnancy because my family was so unwelcoming when I announced with my third...
Thanks!!!