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Carissa❤👑👫👭👶👄 • I`m Carissa I have a daughter I’m engaged but also looking for some really close friends and have a little fun every now and then sometimes I’m a sweet down-to-earth person once you get to know me!!!
I'm in a relationship now and I'm bisexual my fiance knows this but we've been having some problems and the problems caused us to have sex less. I know that he's dealing with depression and working very hard N tired a lot but we have only been having sex 1 to2 maybe 3 times a month . I have been missing being with a female help
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I've been in your husbands shoes and it was extremely frustrating when my bf asked when we could have sex. I was going through something very difficult and my mind wasn't up for it. I'd say try to give him a special day. Don't let him work or have any responsibilities for 24 hours. Treat him to a nice breakfast, do things he wants to do, give him a massage while watching a movie, and see if he relaxes. It might help. 

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Li • Jul 22, 2015
....from another woman? Not saying this is going on, but there's always another who will be willing to do what you refuse to do and it would be terrible, especially when YOU are the woman he really wants to be with. But constant rejection from the one you love also feels terrible.

Li

Li • Jul 22, 2015
LL....I'm saddened that your BF has to ask you for sex. I also understand what it's like to be stressed out and have other things on your mind. Sometimes you just have to let those things go and see to your mans needs. He could be feeling rejected by you. What if he starts seeking what he needs....

Li

Li • Jul 22, 2015
.....wrong with them. Takes more than just loving someone to be happily married forever.

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I believe relationships should be give and take. I may not feel like sex in the same moment as my fiancé but because I love, respect, and cherish him, I want him to have his needs met. So instead of saying "no; maybe later; not right now", I try to put myself into the mindset for sex and with us fooling around, I can get into it 99% of the time. Now the same goes for me. If I want/need sex or to just be loved on or touched, he doesn't deny me. I think this is essential in relationships. Your man needs to wake up and take care of his woman (you).

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Carissa❤👑👫👭👶👄 • Jul 22, 2015
I agree with you 100% that is how it should be