Ive been going out with my partner for 8yrs who refuses to work has had one job in 8 yrs witch was only over xmas just gone he swears all the time round our little girl who is 5 in a few weeks I've had enought yesterday. We fight all the time we aint slept in the same bed your. but silly me got pregnant and now im currently 16 weeks ive left him and staying with family im not even sad about it if anything all my stress has gone he sometime aint very nice to summer our daughter and he be littles me alot makes me think i cant cope!! He has got a good side tho he does make me laugh sometimes but its like im always walking on egg shells with him i just want him to work and provide for us instead of living on benifis all the time ive been asking him to learn to drive for like 5 yrs and just taking the test we had a big fight about that to when we didnt need to have any of you spilt with someone who you got kids to or being with a long time??? Or being pregnant how did you get thought it????? Sorry about gramma and spelling