So upset.......

Jessi
So last week I more than thought I was pregnant finally! But I wanted to wait for af to take a test. Well I waited for her and she came and brought out all her weapons. I have never in my life had cramps as bad as that. I called my mom and asked her if that was a thing in our family. I was throwing up I was in so much pain. Turns out I had a miscarriage. I didn't even know I was pregnant cause it was only a few days along. I don't know how I feel. Everything feels.. numb I guess is the right word. Is there anyone else ttc whose had a miscarriage? Any advice? Should we wait or keep trying? I'm just sad and confused.....