Marriage

Anyway my So just approached me asking what do I think of a court house marriage before I have the baby because he will like us all to have the same name and me to be his wife. Now Marriage has ALWAYS been a topic but we didn't have the funds to plan the big wedding I wanted . Now that I'm pregnant a big wedding is not priority but it would be nice to be his wife I'm just not sure how I feel about a court house wedding and not having all my family there etc 😕. I'm torned. I know we can always have a wedding later down the line but from what I heard most court house weddings never end up having a wedding after because they kind of settle ?

Any opinions ? Or anyone have every been in a similar situation