I see a lot of people say " when you stop thinking about it, it'll happen'

For my case ( and my partners) we can't just not think about it, and get pregnant. We have to constantly think about it, call our donor, inseminate, wait. Oh you're ovulating high ? Call donor hope he can meet us, inseminate, wait. Very anxious and feeling a bit down today. My heart gets so happy when I see positives on here, I long for the day me and my partner get ours and I can sing to her belly, and rub her feet. I'm a very positive person, just a little sad today.

Just needed to vent.