Engaged but not a lot of sex...


We have different sex drives. It used to really really really bother me, and it still sometimes does on a few occasions, but I'm working on it.

When your partner has a much lower sex drive than you, how do you fill in the gaps to still feel as much intimacy and love without the physical act of making love?

Just searching for other people in a similar situation that has found other ways to feel that missing feeling.

I love to make love with my sweetheart, but he could go without sex most of the time. 1 or 2 times a month is enough for him. We have talked about it, and tried to find some sort of compromise considering I'd like to have sex every other day or every 3 days and he would only like to have sex 1 or 2 times a month it's a big differance. Tried roughly 1 time a week, but I could tell he didn't enjoy it and that makes it not enjoyable for me.

Suggestions for connections without sex to keep my "love tank" full so I don't get flusterated.