So I am 5 weeks pregnant with baby number 2. My relationship with my father has been brought back to terrible. Long story short he used me again for sympathy and when everything went back to normal he did not need me or my family anymore. He decided to not go to my daughter's birthday, this is the 4th on he has not attended, oh and she is 4. He never called her or even sent a card. He also chose not to go to her first dance recital. I confronted him and he told me I just wanted to give him s*** in my own ignorant way. Do I tell him about baby number 2 or forget it because he already broke my daughter's heart.