Ex gf/best friend

Carissa❤👑👫👭👶👄 • I`m Carissa I have a daughter I’m engaged but also looking for some really close friends and have a little fun every now and then sometimes I’m a sweet down-to-earth person once you get to know me!!!
So let me tell u all the story.... I met her on a dating app we dated for a month. I ended it for a few reasons.... Her parents wasn't ok with the fact that she was into girls and she was young and very religious and suffered with depression and cutting her self too. I was going through a lot of my own personal problems too. I told her we can be friends tho. Then I meet my ex bf we started dating it started off good then they met and we were all together so then it started getting hard to be with the two of them. Him and I broke up and they are now engaged. But now she is going through a rough time because she doesn't have a very many friends and her boyfriend is in new jersey her and I are still friends and I live in new Jersey too. She's becoming hard to deal with even through texting. All she does is complain about how her life is so hard I want to be there but idk anymore I know she has no one. Idk what to do plz help