Just wish i felt sexy

Have you ever looked into your spouses eyes an wish you felt sexy. I dont know if hes going thru mid life crisis or what i need to feel wanted sexy an theres nothing no sex no love no cuddling nothing for a week on end he says stress an im loke were in the same boat what about physical needs ? Just wish i knew how to make me feel sexy inhis eyes to ge wouldnt take his hands off me like before...