Some backstory: My husband and I have been married for ten months. We are not currently trying to conceive but we I did have a very early miscarriage back in February. I'm beginning to really want to have a baby though. We joke around a lot about it happening accidentally and what we would do. Sometimes I think he's serious though and he then he ends  with just kidding. We both want kids "eventually" and have agreed to talk about it more when we've been married a year.