I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We started dating the summer before 10th grade and now im going to be a sophmore in college! We have been inseparable since. Of course we have our fights, every couple does. You cant expect to have a successful relationship without putting effort in or communicating with your partner. It is always easier to stop assuming what they are doing and just talk to them about how you feel. Not all guys/girls are bad :)