Ugh. I'll try to make this as short as possible. I made a friend in Corps school (let's call her Amie), we are both in the Navy, and she is on leave before going to her next station in Italy. I felt bad for the poor girl because she's been in dental tech school and her dad for some reason blew off her graduation and hasn't picked up the phone in about 2 months. No one knows his whereabouts.

Because of this unfortunate situation, Amie had nowhere to go on leave before moving to Italy. Her closest family other than her dad are in Egypt. I agreed to let her stay with me and my husband in DC.

First off, I offered to find her hotels near our place because our condo is really small and due to her religion she needs a lot of privacy etc. Well, she declined to get a hotel because they're pretty expensive here, ($100-$400 + per night). So I said alright you can sleep on the futon in the living room. Then she tells me last minute yesterday morning that she's flying in and won't land until 11:00 pm. I told her can you get a can because I work and have to get up early for a 30 min commute to the base. She complained about the cab fair. So I changed my day around, crashed for 2.5 hrs as soon as I got off work, woke up and ate dinner with my husband and then we met her at the airport ... .. she informs us she's staying until the 7th. A 12 days stay I thought was supposed to be 7 days.

When we arrive home Amie takes her shoes off and he feet smelled SO BAD it infiltrated the living and kitchen and started to seep into the bathroom.

I told her I was exhausted and needed to quit chatting so I could sleep (and get away from the smell) /:

Then, this morning I told Amie there is a Safeway a half mile from our condo where she can pick up some snacks and breakfast stuff for herself because I leave so early for work and skip breakfast and my husband sleeps in during the week and just gas cereal. I told her we don't mind making dinner each night, but she may need some specific food and personal items. She sent me a text back claiming, "I can't think of anything."

My husband and I are pretty uncomfortable because we feel like we saved her probably $1,000 in hotel fees and she doesn't seem to get proper etiquette of being a house guest.

I don't know how else to address this?? Any advice is great. I'm feeling like after this I may never invite her to stay again and I'm praying I get through these next 11 days /: I'll post in the comments a screenshot of my text to Amie. I hope I didn't seem rude to her!!