That one negative person....

Meagan • Mommy of four 💜
I'm 21 weeks with twins. So far everything is going good. Nothing to worry about as of now but who knows how it will be later. Ever since I found out I was expecting twins I have had a few negative people say things to me and I've blown it off for the most part. But my sister whom I have had a rocky relationship with for ever is the biggest one that's been really bothering me. She feels that I don't need to see a specialist, she doesn't like my OB Dr because she has heard bad things about her. I was telling her about my drs appt today and that the Dr said if the time comes that we should start talking about restrictions. My sister says "why? People have been having babies for years and taking car of younger kids and doing chores. They have been having twins for years and they weren't on any restrictions or seeing a specialist." I know that but things have changed. A lot of those twins didn't always survive. Some of those Moms didn't survive. There is the chance of pre-term labor too. She just acted like that's nothing to worry about either. How can anyone act like having twins is just another pregnancy and nothing for you to worry about? I've decided I'm not going to talk to her about this pregnancy anymore. Even if something god forbid goes wrong I'm not telling her a damn thing. I'm so pissed.