Okay, so I have never been one to touch myself, that's what guys and/or girls are for. My husband keeps asking me to touch myself when we try to get sexual and I tried it and it does nothing for me. He can me me come pretty quickly but when I do it, it literally takes forever....am I the only one who thinks it doesn't turn you on? My hubby keeps bugging me about it, "touch yourself, play with your nipples", and I want to be spontaneous and do what he likes but i just feel nothing!