My mother is bipolar & she takes it out on my boyfriend when i don't listen to her rules. I'm afraid of losing my boyfriend over this because she acts mentally unstable. She will say im aloud at his house on the weekend then the weekend will come by & she will threaten him with cops & stuff if he lets me come to his house. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm growing up I'll be 17 & she just still continues to make my life miserable. Its sad but i can't even talk to her about anything because its like talking to a brick wall. She has no friends & she expects me to be home with her 24/7. She even got nasty with my boyfriend & told him to shut the f*ck up. When all he was doing was trying to make things work out because everything has to go her way or no way. She complains saying im lazy i need a job this that. Im trying lately but she says hurtful things. She never taught me how to do those things.