So its end of month 1 of ttc for me and my husband. Sucks that af has came after doing everything we could to ensure the best chances. I know with my history of problems that our best chances are right after we come off BC, so to know that we ovulated and tested for everything...every single day, and af shows up when I've never had regular periods without BC to have it 2 days earlier than predicted...it just sucks!. I don't know if I keep up with doing everything and being hopeful for it to happen with it hurting this bad for the 1st time.