I'm 35yrs old. I lost my virginity at the age of 18. I have never been able to have an orgasim during sex..I only have one when oral is being done and then it takes me awhile that way.. I always felt it was something wrong w me. I am married now and I would like to experience that special moment of having an orgasim while my husband is inside of me... I have tries everything from soft music, porn, not thinking etc.. and he understands that I have always had this problem but I think if wld be great to do it w him...

I'm lost any thgts on what I can do