Me and my husband have been together for eight years married for four we've tried all kinds of things and bought books. but lately he's been working ridiculous hours and I have to stay at home. Actually enjoy that I get to spend more time with my children and I don't have to work. But I feel as though I'm not sexy anymore and that I'm the one that's always ask for sex. and I feel bad because he's tired he worked 13 hours but he works all the time. we have my stepchildren and I don't feel like we have any time to ourselves I can't even get a babysitter I just feel miserable about myself when I feel horrible for asking for sex. Love some help sex toy can only do so much