I'm curious how many ladies out there are dealing with their SO having low testosterone, and how you deal with it??....  It's been really hard on me, and I know it's hard on him as well. I try to talk to him a lot about it, but he says it's not fun, but then leaves it at that.  Our sex life is almost non existent most of the time.  I have an incredibly high sex drive, so when I say it's difficult, I mean it's DIFFICULT!!!  I have learned to not say too much about it anymore, me being hurt, or put out caused fights, and he thinks I'm not sensitive to him. Which I am completely sensitive. Would you gals ask your husbands to do for you in other ways even if he wasn't able to actually have sex with you?? Or would you just let it be, and get settled with no sex life?