Ive had a rough 4 years with my sex life. I dont have the sexual drive i used to and im scared it will eventually end my marriage.. ive only been married 9 months but still. It started with me finding out i had hpv and after a couple months of painful sex. Found out i had genital warts. After 3 months of painful burning medicine.. sex was never the same. A couple years later my hpv disappeared and the medicine took care of the warts.. and then the painful sex started in again. It was something called vulvodynia.. overactive nerves around the vaginal opening.. it eventually went away on its own but ive never been the same since... any opinions on how to get my sexual drive back.. i just hardly ever want it anymore and i dont know what to do.. my husband always wants it and i always feel so horrible.