Feel like I'm losing my husband!?

Please no judgement but in a sense I feel like I don't wanna be married to him anymore... I start by saying me and him have had a really strong love we are high school sweethearts we did get married once we graduated everything was fine until we got married... I work a lot during the week and weekends and he goes and hangout with his friends while I'm working which is fine but today I wanted to go out to eat just us two we haven't in awhile well his friend wanted to go out to eat Wednesday with all of us but I really wanted to go alone this time because I mean am I wrong to want some alone time with my husband... I told him I just wanted us to go he starts arguing with me and saying we don't have the money yet there's only a day difference between today and Wednesday now we have been arguing all day because he wants to put his friends first like when I make plans they get changed for his friends to work around and he hangs out with them on my days off too and I'm tired of it! And everytime we have dinner together it's like he's not happy unless his friends are there too and I feel like I'm not enough when I know I am... Am I wrong to feel this way I mean there's no romance I feel alone like we are just friends and I can't talk to him he blamed me what do I do?